Dont sweat it Nitro. Most Rhoms are shy to eat in front of their owners. I have 2 Rhoms.. one who would give a show as soon as you drop a feeder in there, while the other doesnt even look their way until im out of the room or when im asleep at night. I even patiently waited for an hr just try and take a pix of his going after a feeder. Its a common thing most would tell you.